To live is to change, Old beliefs do not lead you to new cheese. Letting Go Of the Past I've been looking over the e-mail. Although it's mostly complimentary—thanks!—there are letters taking me to task... ...for upsetting traditional views and values. As I read some of these an image comes to mind of people trying to move into the future... ...with their attention focused squarely on their rear view mirrors. People with major investments in traditional views... ...from the time when right and wrong were seemingly black and white... ...and simple. But there is a problem. In the past few decades life, society and educated understandings have changed in some pretty major ways. But, a lot of these people don't want to change... ...they even think that new ideas and ways of doing things as boardering on evil. I guess it takes the burden off of them to have to adjust. For may people, changing their views on some fundamental attitudes would mean admitting they have been wrong! Not easy when... ...they have "stood the high ground" ...made major sacrifices... ...bucked the trends... ...regularly gone on record with their beliefs. ...and, the real clincher... ...they denied themselves pleasures that others enjoyed... ...and to now admit they were wrong would render that sacrifice meaningless. Is it not much easier for them to live with all of that if they simply maintain they were right all along and the other guys will pay for all their "fun" by going to hell? And, isn't it amazing how many people get substantial satisfaction from believing that! The high ground defense applies doubly to institutions.... ...some of the same ones that, despite all evidence to the contrary, refused to acknowledge that the world was
It took a few decades, but these institutions finally came around.... ...except, perhaps, for The Flat Earth Society, which, we must assume, has kept its feet firmly planted on level ground all this time. You would think an old curmudgeon like me would glorify the good old days... ...see them through rose-colored glasses... ...as a time when we didn't have all of today's problems. Fact is, the good old days weren't so good... ...especially if you lived through them all in the newspaper business where we kept track of such things on a daily basis. Those who say we need to cling to past values and ways of doing things... ...apparently haven't noticed that after decades, if not centuries... ...they haven't been working too well. Although we claim to be guided by Judeo-Christian values... ...we continue to devote billions to developing better ways of killing each other... ...while not being all that troubled by the fact that in the process the rich are getting richer...* ...and, according to widely-available statistics... ...the needs of the poor, disenfranchised, and needy are greater than ever. Not quite consistent with the Judeo-Christian philosophy... ...which is much talked about by our leaders... ...but doesn't get in the way of the decisions they want to make.... ...to keep what they have.... ...and get even more... ...consistent with yesterday's values... ...which haven't worked... ...and still aren't working. At some point we may just have to face this fact... ...and break from our anchronistic, ineffective philosophies... ..let go of past views and admit that.... ...yesterday's answers are just that... ...yesterday's answers. Editor's notes and updates:
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